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Twins claim abuse at daycare centre

One of the twins showing how he was punished for blurting out vulgarities during a re-enactment at the daycare centre. He was asked to raise his hands, holding a paper with the sentence “I will not speak vulgar words in the future

One of the twins showing how he was punished for blurting out vulgarities during a re-enactment at the daycare centre. He was asked to raise his hands, holding a paper with the sentence “I will not speak vulgar words in the future


A MOTHER of 11-year-old twins is hopping mad over the punishment meted out on her sons at a daycare centre.

Zhang Yu Lan was so upset that she took her children to the centre and made them re-enact the “abusive and inhumane” punishment. She then took photogrpahs and lodged a police report. She also has complained to the Negri Sembilan MCA Public Services and Complaints Bureau.

Among others, she claims the boys’ mouths were sealed with musking tape, hands tied and they were made to beat each other for 15 minutes.

But the twins mouths are sealed no more. They have come out in the open and told all.

They admitted that they had misbehaved and deserved to be punished but what they went through was excessive.

The twins, who said they were punished for fighting and blurting out vulgarities, also had to do 50 ear squats each.

Zhang said she started sending her children to the after-school daycare centre in Seremban in March as she had to help her husband with his business.

One of the twins showing how he was punished for talking. With his is his mother Zhang Yu Lan

One of the twins showing how he was punished for talking. With his is his mother Zhang Yu Lan


“I agree that children have to be punished for their mistakes but the punishment must be reasonable,’’ she told China Press.

She alleged that the centre had refused to allow her children to have their meals together with other students.

“My boys had to stand facing the wall outside the kitchen. They could only eat after the other students had finished,” she said.

Zhang said she only found out about it when her children complained to her recently.

The brothers said a teacher at the centre had sealed their mouths with musking tape to stop them from talking.

“The teacher also tied up our hands to prevent us from removing the tape on our mouths,” they said.

They said they were also made to beat each other after they were caught fighting at the centre.

The centre refused to comment when contacted by reporters.

Comments (25)

  • Peter
    My Mum would be happy with such a punishment 30 years ago!!! Parents nowadays!
  • McNG
    two spoiled brags, the care centre must have their hand overflow dealing with them. just no 'family teaching'(direct chinese translation). the parent must take fully responsibilities for their unacceptable behaviour or else we might have two future problems that our law enforcement personnel may have to deal with in the future.
  • Joy
    So what's the big deal??? If the boys have behaved well, would they receive such punishment? I suppose the parents have no one to blame but themselves for failing to discipline the children from young age. The boys must have gone out of control if not the day care center would not even bother to impose any form of punishment, afterall it is not public school.
  • sheila
    actually , my son went tru tis treatment when he was 4 yrs old. he had 30% burn . he was burnt when he was havin his uasual bath in the nursery in pg, gentlecare in khw sin bee road. my son got burn at his shoulder n back around 12noon. they just put some calamine lotion n ngiv him a panadol and tell him to take a nap.
    I only came to know about it at 6 pm bcos i always pick my babay at tis time. they told me he went in to shower alone. OMG. .... my son was only 4 yrs old. how does he know n he was also not tall enough to get the water hose , it was out of their reach. it was the maid who turn on the heater tat burn my son, 2 day , he is 17yrs but the scar is still there. i took him to hope children hospital. the doctor comfirm he had a 30% BURN.
    WE WENT TO THE PRESS . YOU KNOW WAT THE OWNER SAY?? UR CHILD TOOK THE WATER HEATER HOSE BY HIMSELF... TELL ME ,PEOPLE N PARENTS OUT THERE. HOW HIGH IS ALL OUR HOUSE HEATER FIX???? IS it any possibility for a 4 yrs old to take it??
    my ...
  • Anonymous
    i agree with sheila. how can a 4 yr old kid reach the house heater? not unless somebody did something and blame the kid.

    no matter how naughty the kid is, child care or nursery has no rights to give unreasonable punishment. even if parents over punish their kids tat ended up as abusing them will lead these parents to court case.

    child care is to help to look after the kids and definitely not abusing them.
  • shaw
    sometimes children nowadays are quite smart to act goodie2 in front of their parents, maybe the kids are damn naughty

    anyway, shud've just punish them cleaning toilet/garbage and rotan enough la, this kind of punishment has severe mental/psychological effect, the person clearly has no brains
  • respon...
    as i know, nowadays kids like to complained and those parent are damn sayang their kids, i know everyone is sayang their kids, but now will become manja. Kids for nowadays cant even stand for a little bit punishment. i think what they need to learn now is responsiblities, they have to responsible on what they do. Have u realise that, the kids now is damn smart and damn naughty, if u compare with yourself when u were a kid, u can found out that you got childhood. The kids now just know how to make violence, i think maybe they play a lot of video games, those fighting games, so for them, it wont be a problem to act so.
  • Anonymous
    when a daycare centre could punished them to this extend means can u guys imagine how bad is the behaviour of these twins....but the parents wont realize this at all.....what a world???
  • Anonymous
    kids nowadays know how to act very well, in front of parents and in front of other ppl they are two different person..

    it is not like you said too much fighting games, they are smart enough to know that is just game, they wont kill ppl just bcoz they kill ppl in game right..it is their parents problem that did not educate them properly or in a right way....
  • ck
    Any way the daycare choose to use to discipline the children also cannot one.

    The parents don't realise that maybe sometimes it is the kids that are really naughty & deserve the disciplinary action. Tak malu ke.. going to the press with it & telling the www that ur kids r so uncontrollable.
  • Anonymous
    and his mother dressed up like..uuh zzz going to hawaii =.='''
  • umar
    it must be the parents who taught the children to speak vulgar words.

    don't manja2 your children la..see what happen nowadays... parents like this are creating social ills.

    punishment is well deserved for the boys. kudos to the centre.
  • Suman Rai
    Well such a young age to utter vulgarity is bad, i mean very bad. There will be fight naturally but vulgariy at such age is??? Well the punishment was let say kind of serious to be published in the paper. Well lets say there is both 50 50 of getting news.
  • ehkay
    parents needs to be responsible and sensible but the punishment also hv to be appropriate.

    it is not abuse.
  • Shakira
    to a certain extend...i guess the care centre jst couldn't handle...those hyper active naughty twins.... tht is why punishment like tht were given to make them realise n be good....but once spoilt...always a spoil brags....taking situation for granted n bring up matters to parents...whre they know parents always be on their side....for me wht the child care did...serves thse twins rights...due to thier misbehavior...n watch by other younger kids...its the parents fault.....
  • Anonymous
    It's the parents fault, have pamper their children too much. Deserves it
  • JTIdol
    If I were the teacher in the daycare centre and I have such spoiled brats who use vulgarities, I would have them slapped a thousand times. End of conversation.
  • T
    Kids good in complain and parents good in listen to their kids. Must be fair parents. Listen to both side before make report.
  • Anonymous
    swearing is still ok if not very excessive..ask who didnt swear before, especially the guys..

    but fighting is totally 'mei jia jiao' - parents fault!
  • Anonymous
    Don't blame daycare centre, blame the parents. Kids will always follow the parents footstep, so tell me...who to blame? 11 years old kids talking voulger words and fighting?? Can't imagine how will they be in few years from now. Very strong chances to be rude, sarcastic, gangsters, thieves and immoral activities.

    Better teach them a lesson or else they gonna be useless youth in future.
  • Jay
    I wonder how many of the above comments are from a parent.

    There are many ways to punish naughty children. But to seal their mouth and tie up their hands, how would YOU as a parent feel if it was your child being treated as such? How would you feel if your children are being put to such embarassments?

    Make them to situps, have them stand at the corner of the room, make sure that they do not sit together. I think these are more reasonable punishments especially coming from an outside party.

    Report the unacceptable acts to the parents. Leave the severe punishing to them. It is up to them how they raise their children whether we think is right or wrong. If the daycare cannot accept the children's behaviour, then tell the parents to look for another centre elsewhere!
  • man
    exactly right!...

    daycare have option not to accept such behavior..kick them out from the centre..dont make thing out of control...
  • Anonymous
    If I want my kids to be punished for bad behaviour, I will send them to a bootcamp or a behaviorial correction facility.
  • wondermat
    All parents MUST be careful in choosing the Daycare. Some DayCare have 100 kids but only 5 adults (or something like that)! Of course they could not handle them. Imagine to bath them, feed them etc. How many kids can you handle?
    Nowadays Daycare are so 'profit making organization'.....
    so, BEWARE parents!
  • Anonymous
    rather have them punished in daycare than in prison in the future..think bout it
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